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If you’ve been faced with the decision to reschedule or cancel your 2020 wedding, you’re not alone. If only this whole situation was a huge April Fool’s Day prank! We know it doesn’t make it any easier, but we have spoken with countless couples who have either proactively made the decision to reschedule their weddings or have been required to do so.

First of all, you’re completely justified in feeling the myriad of emotions you’re likely feeling. Sad, angry, frustrated and probably many others. It’s not selfish; essentially, you need to grieve the loss of a very important piece of your life. BUT, then, you need to shake it off because it’s just temporary. Try to remind yourself that you WILL get your day…eventually.

According to Matthew Trettel, president of The Wedding Guys, “It’s been a hard choice for couples to decide, but just like weddings, our couples are determining what is right for them.” He added, “Many couples are choosing to move forward with small gatherings, while others have chosen to postpone their weddings.” Needless to say, you could also just head to the courthouse with some witnesses and get it done.

If you’re among the majority and refuse to give up on a more traditional affair, the best thing you can do is to be flexible, patient, stay positive and keep planning. Read on for tips on how to heed this advice.

Look at your contracts and know what your options are regarding cancellations and rescheduling. Also know that many vendors are being more flexible than what was initially agreed upon in writing. When trying to reschedule, understand that many other couples are trying to do the same, so have a few preferred, new dates in mind. And, if you’re open to a weekday or Sunday event, you’ll have less competition.

The last thing you want to do is to be rude or insensitive to any of your vendors, many of which may be worried about the longevity of their businesses. The best thing you can do is to work together to reschedule vs. cancel. And, come to terms with the fact that your ability to reschedule may not be an option for a while. Trettel suggests, “If you need to postpone, cancel or reschedule your wedding, the best thing to do is have a candid conversation with each explaining your specific circumstances so that you come to a solution that works for both you and the wedding service provider.”

The sad reality is that some of us are losing very important people in our lives, including partners of many years. If you still have your loved one by your side, be grateful that you have a lifetime of love and laughter ahead. If you can get through a wedding replanning during a pandemic together, signs are pretty good that you have made the right partner choice AND you will be able to weather the inevitable ups and downs of married life.